Marrying non-virgins?

1 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 01:53
What does 4ct think about marrying non-virgins? Can it work, or is the marriage doomed?

I mean I'm not a virgin, so I wouldn't expect the girl to be either, but if she gives off dick carousel vibes its an instant no-no.
2 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 03:14
Life's hard enough, ill take what I can get.
3 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 04:54
As long as they arent a whore its ok the thing that dooms a marrige is the type of women who use sex to get stuff
4 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 06:01
Life is about experiences and trying shit. Agreed with above that dick fiends are a no-go and will probably cheat. But don’t resent a non-virgin for just living life in the 21st century. Thats normal now.
5 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 07:08
I'm not a virgin and I don't think that makes me any worse as a potential husband; I see no reason that the same wouldn't be true of a woman
6 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 08:15
I fucked all sorts of gutter trash, trannies, glory holes and drunken old ladies etc before meeting my wife. I don’t really care about her sexual past and I’ve never revealed the extent of mine.
7 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 09:22
Kissless virgin bitches ONLY. I wouldn’t touch a skank that has been used and wasted by another man with a ten meter cattle prod. I’m not gonna get STDs, or cheated on, or stuck raising some other motherfucker’s half nigger children either. Females with spread legs and penis breath are completely worthless. I only date teenage virgins whom I have groomed online
8 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 10:29
Sure, but it's the pickup truck rule
it's not that all pickup drivers are assholes, but if there's an asshole on the road, he's probably in a pickup.
Same same: not all non-virgins are crazy, dramatic sluts. But if there's a crazy, dramatic slut, she's probably a non-virgin.
got me in the last half
9 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 11:19
Marrying a virgin is worse because they have no experience and have a lot of unanswered curiosity about sex in general. For the same reasons you don’t want to be a virgin when you get married, don’t marry a virgin
10 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 12:10
getting married

Life is about experiences and trying shit
no its not
that is nigger and female thinking
11 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 12:44
God what is wrong with you incel faggots lmao
12 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 13:17
Correct. Life is about playing video games and staying at home until you’re in your early 40s
13 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 13:51
You realize like 99% of all women of marriageable age are non-virgins right?
14 Name: Anonymous 1975-01-26 14:21
since when did the primary demographic on 4ct become the old men at church

people have sex it's not that important lol
15 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 14:58
I met my wife when she read 28. She grew up catholic and went to mostly female only schools. Never had interests in guys until she met her first boyfriend at 21. Apparently he way away for months at a time, they were on a break and at that time I met her.

That’s the closest I was at finding a women that didn’t have 10 dicks at least and wasn’t under 25
16 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 15:32
this 110%. i met my wife online when she was 15 and i was 17. groomed her for years and warped her mind until i was the only man she could even conceieve of being with. took her in to live with me when she was 17 with the full support of her parents. now she’s my tradwife homemaker/mother/personal dickslut
17 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 16:05
Sex with virgins sucks, it's a skill you'll learn and improve over time, and you learn from partners mostly. Two virgins married to each other will have a terrible sex-life.

Also wtf are you taking about? It's not 1870 ffs..
18 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 16:39
I mean marrying a virgin would make a difference only if you're so bad at sex that you ABSOLUTELY need her to have no comparison.
19 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 17:12
Why would I marry a woman who doesn’t know how to fuck?
20 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 17:46
Sounding insecure af tbh. Also, she’s probably getting regular dick from some chad who has more than an ounce of confidence
21 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 18:20
Every atom in the human body is replaced every month or so. Get over yourself the universe has.
22 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 18:53
what i'd do?

i'd enjoy my wedding night thats what i'd do.

none of that "oh take it out it hurts" crap.

i want her to lick it clean and suck my balls dry

then again i'm not a little dick fag either, i'm not worried about her saying she had been with larger men.

this board and their "virgins" no wonder
23 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 19:27
What does 4ct think about marrying non-virgins? Can it work, or is the marriage doomed?

Don't listen to the morons here. Use common sense. When you settle for a female that is a promiscuous slut, you are not getting actual "wife" material in the sense of everything the word "wife" should mean. Further, you are not getting the type of future mother for your children that either you, or ultimately they (given her already-exhibited low moral standards) would want, or should be degraded with alongside in her cesspool of lack of integrity and self-respect.

If a female does not respect and value the (honestly, one and only one) actual "gift" that she is giving to the one she ultimately marries, and instead chooses to abandon standards and the respect for her future husband, along with the sanctity of marriage itself, then she can neither honor nor respect any man she marries, including you. These type of women only marry because they have no other options, familial pressure, or the money. If they prioritize sex (which gets old no matter what woman you are with) above you, the marriage, standards, integrity, morality, and all the higher principles that should be a "woman", and are running around with a mattress on their back or getting slammed in back alleys or whatever, then why marry her at all? She has shown her worth . . . even in her own eyes . . . and it has zero value, certainly not worthy of being called a "wife".

Last, reflect on why it is that every major culture throughout all of mankind and civilization has valued the virgin. In most societies, a non-virgin cannot marry and is considered filth. This has been the case for thousands of years. The reason? Countless millions of predecessors and elders have learned (often the hard way) that which I state above in that such women have abysmally low standards and ultimately prove to be a disaster as marriage material, cheating, lying, materialistic, conniving, backstabbing, divorcing, aldulterers.
24 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 20:17
You’re much more likely to be cheated on by a virgin wife, she may get curious and want to try something else and like it.

If she’s already tried other guys and she’s with you she has less reason to cheat
25 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 20:34
Yeah it's hard to imagine a man or woman who's only had sex with one person all their life not being tempted by other offers, 'just to see'.

I feel like most of the moral standards about chastity/virginity come from the fact that a) sex makes babies b) survival was harder. With birth control easy to use and overall survival easy as fuck, society can move past the old morals that made sense for their time. It'll take a while to adjust though.
26 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-10 20:52
So the tldr of this thread is... it doesnt matter if either you or her are virgins or not, just stay away from roasties
27 Name: Anonymous 2020-09-11 19:25
explain how you ended up having 0 friends

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