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What should i do?

2 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 04:46
Get her on lithium or kiss your formerly stable mental state goodbye.
5 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 06:27
You're literally describing almost all women. Best is to just get pussy and ignore the rest.
7 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 07:17
I dated a bipolar girl from 16 till 20. We broke up when she was manic and thinking she needed space outside of relationship to 'find herself'. I took the opportunity, as I saw this was doomed to fail in long run even though I cared for her. Last year she committed suicide. All the things you describe were the same, besides that she would listen to eventually and apologize, cause my argumentation was better than hers. If I were you, I would advise you to leave her, as she will ruin your life.
12 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 09:15
This is probably bait, but I'm just finishing up my shit and I'm feeling kind.

This sounds more like BPD than bipolar. Like it doesn't sound like bipolar at all. Stable relationships with BPDs are possible but a lot of them lie, cheat, gaslight, drain, then dump for another cock to repeat the process. It depends on how severe she is and if she is willing to change.

It will be hard work and may not ever get better. You should probably quit and dump her. If you decide to keep the relationship going YOU NEED TO ESTABLISH HARD BOUNDARIES. When she blows up you need to calmly and politely tell her "I won't be spoken to this way, you need to take a moment and collect your emotions". If you can't do that - walk.

Communicate. Tell her that you're worried about her and you're worried that the relationship won't last unless you guys communicate better and that she needs to take better control of her emotions. Read/listen to "Stop walking over eggshells". Read up on "DEAR MAN" letters and write her one.

She needs to want to change and try to change. She needs to go into DBT classes - this is a type of emotional regulation therapy for people with BPD. You need to be patient with her and accept things will always be tough.

Only then you might have a chance. But it will probably end badly and you'll probably end up regretting being with her and she drains you and you codependently (read up on codependency) supply her until you and drained and dumped.

Godspeed and good luck.
13 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 09:32
Yup, thats a woman alright
15 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 10:05
Rail her hard in the ass and dump her right after
17 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 10:56
this relationship will end up in murder/suicide.
27 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 15:25
My first girlfriend is bipolar with dissociative disorder and has since been diagnosed with schizophrenia. When we were 16 she stabbed me in the leg with a fork after I told her I was going home to study. She fully believed I was going to her older sister's apartment to fuck her. Her sister lived more than 6 hours away.

She tried to run me over with my car at a roadside stop after she had a dream I was going to kill her. She had the dream while we were driving and waited until I stopped to take a piss to try to "getaway." She believed all her dreams were psychic so I had to have been planning to kill her.

She used to buy feeder rats then go to restaurant parking lots and check car doors. If the car was unlocked she would put two in the back seat and spread dog food under the seat.

She fucked like a porno flick bitch and pretty much ruined me for regular women. Did you know that having someone choke you and spit in your face while wrist deep in your pussy is not normal? Have you ever tried to choke someone while wrist deep in their pussy? Like a human accordion.

In college, she fucked woman questionable aged high schooler...everyone, and then she decided she needed to date someone. She started dating a frat guy and cleaned up her act for the most part. Only sometimes he would piss her off so she would come over to my place and my roommate and I would run train on her.

She drank a lot like vodka in a coke can lot. She would blackout for days. All of this is just the tip and not even really her because in a way she was two people. One was a nice quiet even shy woman and the other was a drug-taking dick-sucking manipulative bitch that would cut you if you looked at her funny. Medication has really helped her, we can hang out without her showing me her pussy or trying to kill me or showing me her pussy to make it easier to try and kill me. I still avoid her but she ended up marrying my cousin.
30 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 17:57
Just dump her and never talk to her again, obviously.
31 Name: Anonymous 2021-09-11 18:24
Nobody really cares about you or "loves" you if "love" is even such a thing, everyone is just trying to gain something from you. Have you guys came to thar realization yet? If not I'm here to remind you.

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