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Is it in womans nature to fuck with man's brain?

1 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 06:43
I am a hard working family feeding man, who clean, maintain the house, do laundry, sometimes cook, show lots of atention, say compliments, statisfy her sexually, buy gifts, and participate in various activities with her. I help her out in every single way that I can. Chores, work, hobbies, etc.

And yet, there is this one time of the month, where she starts being angry, mad, pissy for seemingly meaningless things that happened long time ago. And she has a talent to anger me to the very core. I am a self contained man, and I show no emotion, no reaction to this whatsoever, even though I may explode one day.

Is it in their nature to annoy us and test the limits of our patience? What is the purpose of this? What are your thoughts /lounge/ ?
2 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 06:53
>>1
You need a man cave for when Aunt Flo comes to visit.
3 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 07:10
>>2
I do own a man cave, but sadly I can rarely enjoy that in peace, because of current state of developing my business.
4 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 07:27
if you get angry, then she is probablly right
5 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 07:44
>>4
Right? Sure. I do work a lot, thats why we can live how we live. I had depression 4years ago, which I have beaten, and back then our relationship suffered. Right about that too. I get angry because all my current effort of many consecutive years gets discredited by some stupid old shit that passed long time ago.
6 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 08:01
>>4
It's like her brains just melt and all the rational thinking just fucking vanishes. I wonder why nature made it like this.
7 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 09:24
>>1
Its her hormonen.
Just consider her mentally challanged at that time of the month. She just doenst know any better.

Also in before u kill her
8 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 10:48
>>7
Just consider her mentally challanged
Yeah, took the words out of my mouth anon

Also in before u kill her
I know it's a joke, but. Fuck no. I better vanish without a trace myself one day. :D
9 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 13:35
>>7
Correct. Women turn into raging cunts after ovulation when their estrogen levels crash.
10 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 18:35
>>9
Women turn into raging cunts after ovulation
I wonder whats the evolutionary benefit of this.
11 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 21:56
>>5
all my current effort of many consecutive years gets discredited by some stupid old shit that passed long time ago
12 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 22:47
>>9
Amen to that.

God bless you OP. You'll get through those days.
13 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-29 23:37
>>10
Probably to keep men away during early pregnancy.

It's not as bad when women are on the pill.
14 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 00:10
>>1
Honestly, you sound kind of emotionally constipated, and the fact that you refuse to actually describe what these things were long ago has me concerned.
15 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 00:44
>>1
You have no brain to fuck with.
16 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 01:18
>>11
Kek

>>13
God bless you OP. You'll get through those days.
Thanks anon. Some months are tolerable, but at some one just gotta do some 4chan talk therapy.

>>13
Probably to keep men away during early pregnancy.
Thats a neat idea, never thought of that.

It's not as bad when women are on the pill.
She's not a believer of the pill, what can I do.
17 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 01:51
>>1
How about you develop emotions and express yourself. Communication is always the solution in a relationship regardless of the issue. If you posted on /lounge/ instead of talking to your partner, you are basically the “toxic masculinity” the libtards talk about.
18 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 02:25
>>14
Honestly, you sound kind of emotionally constipated.
I am. But thats how I was raised, and in vast majority of critical situations in life, show of emotion doesn't solve anything, so I m keeping whats mine.

The fact that you refuse to actually describe what these things were long ago has me concerned.
Ok, as I mentioned before. 4 years ago I had depression, no confidence, low income. Our relationship suffered because of that. There were many unhapy days, cause I was crushed, unmotivated pussy. I have solved all these problems.
Thats probably the biggest issue we've had. But then she makes up problems from thin air, such as that I take work offers on purpose to spend less time with her. This kind of fiction just fucking grinds my gears to the max.
19 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 02:58
>>16
She's not a believer of the pill, what can I do

Fuck her full of cum every month.
20 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 03:32
>>1
Prolly just her 6th Sense telling her u are a pedophile
21 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 04:22
So, a couple things. Yes, first off, I agree that while she's on her period, she probably gets a little less rational and a little more emotional that usual. Having said that, a thing to consider is the notion of making amends. You might be different and better than you were before. You may even have apologized for things you have done in the past, but that doesn't magically wipe away all the pain. She may still think on these past things you've done. Even if you're a saint now, consider giving the past a little thinking. If you really fucked up back there, maybe you have to make it up to her some how, not just apologize. That's not always good enough. Finally, I agree with the other anon that talked about you communicating better in the now. Regardless of the past, you need to be able to articulate why you think she's being mean. It's ok to simply say, "you are being mean to me right now, why?" Or anything along those lines. It's ok to be emotional as a man. In fact, in my opinion, the manliest thing one can do is be emotionally courageous. Courage of any type is manly in my opinion...
22 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 05:12
>>18
I am. But thats how I was raised, and in vast majority of critical situations in life, show of emotion doesn't solve anything, so I m keeping whats mine.
All right, this is something you really need to work on, especially if you're having issues with anger that feel like they might become explosive. I very much recommend getting therapy for this issue in particular.
23 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 06:03
Literally been facing this with my wife recently too. Girls are fucking mental man... it's honestly starting to make me hate her and i wish it didn't..
24 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 06:36
>>18
You talk like a retard and asshole
25 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 07:10
>>1
Here's an insane idea.
Communicate your feelings to her.
Talk about what you're feeling and thinking.
I know. Crazy.
26 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 08:00
>>1
I am a hard working family feeding man, who clean, maintain the house, do laundry, sometimes cook, show lots of atention, say compliments, statisfy her sexually, buy gifts, and participate in various activities with her. I help her out in every single way that I can. Chores, work, hobbies, etc.
You are a beta male.
Your woman has realized it and is dominating you.
You need to assert dominance.
Fuck her as much as you can, even if she doesn't want to. Especially anal.
Stop helping her with chores and house stuff.
That's a woman's job.
Stop buying her gifts, helping her and doing stuff with her.
You are a man. You are above petty female activities.
Start acting like a real man or she will find someone who is.
27 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 08:50
>>18
Do you calmly explain that you are taking more work to increase your collective income? In other words make more money for the both of you? If she doesn't believe you, then you need to have a real conversation about how the two of you can not have a healthy relationship unless you trust and believe one another...
28 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 09:24
>>26
this man has clearly never been in a relationship in his life.
29 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 10:14
>>26
Don't listen to this advice OP. The alpha-beta view is for animals. We are humans with higher thinking abilities. There is no 1 way to have a healthy, happy relationship. The one thing I WILL agree with this anon on, is that is the work division between you and your wife is uneven and unfair, you need to talk to her about her doing more to help you both out. The more you work as a cohesive unit, the better. If you work a lot, then it's only fair she does more chores (unless you both work, then just split house work evenly).
30 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 11:04
>>28
Or only a toxic one. Or he found a Neanderthal girl...
31 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 12:11
>>21
>>25
These people are right, us men are the only ones who think we shouldn't be emotional/communicate. Every girl I've been with has loved it and expressed how much she wished more men did that.
If you're being pissy on 4ct instead of talking to her about how she's making you feel, clearly she isn't the only person who is causing problems in the relationship. If you can't deal with women being retards on their periods, you're too beta to be with women.
32 Name: Anonymous 2021-06-30 13:36
>>16
IUD.

GF has an IUD, I creampie her anytime I want and she loves being flooded with it. Smash her before work and get pics of the fallout. No scares and I've flooded her fuck tubes with cum for 7 years since she was 19. Highly recommend.

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