she says no she's not ready.

1 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-20 23:55
get heartbroken by girl 1.5 years ago decide to be single for a while to improve myself and hook up with randoms
everything is ok, still lonely sometimes
meet new girl beginning of January on dating app.
she's super smart (doctor) and cute, 3 years younger than me
I try hard to not like her too much, we have 4-6 dates
Plan special valentine's day when I want to ask her out officially to be my GF
she says no she's not ready
becomes distant, says we need to meet for a serious talk
I already know things are over, just don't know why
go to her place, she says she doesn't see a long term future, doesn't feel true feelings for me and had to 'force' herself to really like me
leave and get home
contemplate texting her, I miss her so much
I really saw a long term future
Trying not to text her and spagetti is extremely difficult
go through other dating apps, meaningless swiping nobody compares to her
what can I do to make this stop?
2 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-21 01:54
shes still better than you, all you ca do is obsess over her. take it from someone who still is obsessing, dont latch out and do anything. itll be better that way, dont drive near her nothing man. nothing, just like the feelings for you. nothing.
obsess and try to be so much better than her that she has to let you try again.
3 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-21 04:41
Bust a nut and do something fun
4 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-21 10:15
It doesn't. You just have to stay busy and focus on other shit and resist the temptation to reach out. It'd be pointless. Chasing other bitches is pretty unfulfilling too.
You have to find something you enjoy that's hard to accomplish and spend time getting better at it.
I wanted to marry my last gf but shit ain't work.
Haven't dated since and don't find too many chicks interesting. It's been about 5 years. I've started a successful company and working on 2 others. Am I happy? I'm not particularly sad.
It basically boils down to finding fulfillment that doesn't involve others. It will make you more attractive to the other sex. The downside is you see right through them.
5 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-21 17:31
Use onlyfans.

I just finished jacking off to the free pics this one onlyfans model has. I've never paid for onlyfans, I used to consider it "weak" or whatever but during the post nut clarity I realized that's an awful justification. I jack off like every night anyways, can't quit vaping weed, and am too lazy to cook most of the time so I just end up ignoring my hunger and losing weight. It feels like nothing I do matters because the pandemic killed my irl social life (I live with my parents and only leave the house to grocery shop). I know it'll be over "soon" but "soon" isn't tomorrow, next week, or next month even. It's just an undetermined point in the future

The minor inconvenience was the model I jacked off to wore an annoying mask in her blowjob video and I could not see face, so that's why I decided I won't subscribe
6 Name: Anonymous 2021-02-22 09:51
23 y/o virgin
at a bar with friends
liquid confidence gets me
manage to get a girl to come back to my apartment
things get heated and we start undressing
take off my pants and go to unbutton my shirt like pic related
"anon whats that"
she laughs uncontrollably
gets dressed and orders an uber home
What the fuck is wrong with women, maybe I just don't like my shirt untucking

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