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So there is this girl I like.

1 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 01:21
I see her like once a week in the bus station. We have never talked to each other or about each other to anyone else. We basically don't know each other at all and have never interacted in any way. However, I know her name, and I sometimes visit her Facebook to look at her pictures because I just think she is really cute.

BUT, yesterday I suddenly found out that she blocked me (?). She doesn't show up in the Facebook search, if I visit the link to her profile it redirects me to the facebook home page. I can see her profile if I'm logged in to another account or not logged in, so I think it means she blocked me. My heart is aching but so is my brain cause why would she have any reason to block me?
2 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 03:04
>>1
Sounds like she wants nothing to do with you. Just bite the bullet and move on, a girl that blocks you just because of the way you look and the little information she can see on your FaceBook profile without being friends with you is probably a bitch anyway and not worth thinking about.
3 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 04:11
>>2
I'm not saying I'm confident in my looks or anything but I've never interacted or had any relation to her ever so I don't think my appeal has anything to do with it. Imagine finding out Trump blocked you on Facebook. Wouldn't you be surprised and curious?
4 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 04:45
Maybe you accidentally liked a very old post by her and she came to know that you are the creep who is ogling at her every week at the bus stop AND is now going thru her facebook too.
5 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 05:19
>>3
You sound like a creep based on your original post, she just caught on
6 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 06:09
>>5
>>4
I'm 100% positive I never liked shared commented reacted etc to any of her posts and I've never stared at her IRL. We just happen to take the same bus and have our classrooms on the same floor.
7 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 08:40
>>6
Just read your original post. Do you know how stupid you sound> you are only human, lord knows you have accidentally liked a photo of her during one your desperate stalking sessions. It happens, otherwise how in hell would she ever get the grand to idea to block you on facebook? You tell me what do you speculate buddy.
8 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 09:47
>>7
Facebook has a function where you can see things you've liked, shared or commented on smart guy hehe xd
9 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 10:53
>>3
Well, the only two options are:
-she blocked you cuz of the way you look/present yourself online
-she blocked you for some other reason that you wont ever find out if you dont interact with her
Either way shouldnt matter now. If you ask her about it you risk being a huge creep, so just forget about it and move on
10 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 12:34
>>8
Yeah buddy I know that is called the Activity Log. But listen here, once a person has blocked you, you won't see that particular activity where you have liked the picture of the said person. That activity would be hidden or you might say blocked. Everything related to that profile is blocked for you, even the activity log.
11 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 13:09
>>10
Anyway its not that difficult to strike up a conversation with a women of your liking even if she is a stranger. What is the worse thing that could happen, she is gonna say 'Sorry i am not interested'. I have done it once in the metro. I fancied this girl who used to take the metro from the same station as me, I thought she was giving me looks and I went up ahead and talked to her she said she was not interest and well that was it, end of story and a clear mind. You should do that too.
12 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 13:42
>>9
just forget about it

My curiosity is killing me though. I guess it'll all come to light tomorrow, hope we get on the same bus.
13 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 13:58
>>12
Youd rather be labbeled a creep infront of the entire bus and all her friends rather than just saying "fuck my curiosity" and Continue with you life? You do you bro, but I would advise against it.
14 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 14:31
>>13
Oh no I'm not planning to talk to her or anything. I'll just see if she gives me any weird look. This was the first advice I got telling me not to talk to her on here tho lol, literally everyone else was "just talk to her bro lol xD !! be le epic chad and ask her whats up haha incel virgin trust me i get mad pussy irl "
15 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 15:39
Facebook sends a notification to the person that you are viewing their profile repeatedly

no joke it happened to a femanon and she took a screenshot.
16 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 17:04
>>15
Bro if this is real I'm gonna kms
17 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 17:48
The end is nigh
18 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 18:33
>>17
Continue on minding my own business

I've played GTA
19 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-18 19:55
>>1
Had a friend that I was real close too. We were normal, nothing strange but we just loved each other's company. One night things went too far when we were cuddling in her bed at a sleepover. Started off kissing really passionately, ended up trying out going down on each other. My heart was pumping and I was so nervous, but it was also such a sweet experience, sound like your getting none of that from this girl move on dude.
20 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-21 20:31
>>1
She probably thought there's something nice about hearing she's nice enough that you picked her as an example of the kind of person you should spend your time on when building a circle of quality friends.

She álso is clearly wondering what you actually mean and what you actually want, as is clearly visible by her saying shes not the regular girl you expect. She's downplaying herself, which is the opposite of qualifying herself. She doesn't want you to get your hopes up for anything special, it's just you and her hanging out in a platonic manner.

So, next order of business, you grew some balls and asked her to hang out. This is probably a large part of why she said yes at all. When she said yea, she was most likely thinking along the lines of "oh sure why not".

As for the whole bit about being scared she'd ghost you: Never. Do. That. Again.

Not only do you came off as insecure, you also showed you think she's the kind of person who'd ghost a friend. Not good, plenty of girls would change their yes into a no for the insecurity or the insult alone, let alone the double-whammy you pulled here.

Apparently you scored enough nice guy points in the past that she's willing to give you the advantage of the doubt with relation to friendship. So, this means there's something decent about you when you're not afraid to be yourself.

In conclusion, you did okay for someone just starting out at getting more social, but there's room for improvement. Don't expect to be outside of the friend-zone at this point by any means.

Best you can do is show some confidence when you hang out, most importantly by unapologetically being yourself. If she's going to be your friend or more she's going to get to know the real you anyways so you might as well just be the real you from the start.
21 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-21 21:04
"You'll get further with a fat girl, they're grateful for the attention"
22 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-22 07:32
>>21
And a free lunch.
23 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-24 18:25
>>20
Once you realize sex is just a part of a meaningful relationship with another person and not the end in and of itself, you will have success
24 Name: Anonymous 2018-11-24 22:18
>>1
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife
25 Name: SuperFratBoyExtreme 2018-12-01 18:34
>>1
How hopeless do your chances with girls have to be before sitting on 4ct's lounge, posting this sad faggotry becomes your best option?

Fuck off with this social media cringe, you lonely masturbating sperg.
26 Name: Anonymous 2018-12-01 22:41
Probably the #1 problem in the more connected modern world is that people's expectations are way too high.

100 years ago you'd have been happier with a lot less. You just wouldn't have known any better. You'd be happy with sunshine, good bread and clothes that mostly fit.

Now, though, people can see further than ever before. You see firm, smooth babes everywhere. Rich people driving nice cars. I mean it's mostly bullshit -- your neighbors don't live like this -- but you can't NOT see it on the internet and TV and it makes you feel less happy than the theoretical you from 100 years ago.

I think the secret is to learn to let go of expectations. Learn what there is to enjoy about where you are and the things you have. Don't be afraid to change your circumstances and take a little risk but again don't set the expectations so high.

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