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i just realized something

156 Name: Anonymous 2017-07-28 10:32
I doubt it will happen because it's a very rare fetish. I've only met one girl who shared the fetish but we never met because her husband found our online chat logs and deleted every online account of existence she had.

She was a marine biologist from Texas. Then again, now that I think about, he could've killed her. Oh well.
157 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-01 14:33
It's an extension of the choking fetish, and breath play in general. Talk to your psych about breath play as a whole, what appeals to you about it, and maybe then you can delve into why.
158 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-02 07:26
These are pretty common or normal fetishes if you are a male.
The only reason choking is a fetish because it cuts off your blood circulation throughout the body. It's more of a psychical reaction then mental play.
The underwater one is odd but I've heard similar stories. Maybe you are into power play. Throwing life & death into any situation is a way to get your blood moving. This goes with the rape role play which is very common (Western p0rn sites have a HUGE category for this).
The skirt/visible skin one is pretty self explanatory...only if you were gay or a non weeb you would have trouble understanding this.

Maybe you should find other ways of showing dominance over someone like pet play or bsdm. Try to find other ways you can feel at edge with your partner that are a lot safer.

I think you have a problem as a male if you enjoy humiliation or anything that isn't boobs, butts or legs. This is when you should see a therapist.
159 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-05 06:00
Diet and exercise will make you feel 1000% better dude. The body is not separate from the brain.
160 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 01:15
Why do I loathe hanging out with my friends? I always get excited when we make plans, but as the day comes I start thinking of reasons not to follow through, and if I do end up spending time with them, I usually feel like I had fun at the end of the night, but I'm always relieved it's over, and sometimes I even cast for excuses to leave early just to avoid it. Either way, I always feel mentally exhausted the next day, and usually end up disappearing from all my social circles for a few days after.
The only people I don't feel that way around are my wife and kids, and the people I work with (who I only see at work). My job is loud and we wear Earplugs, so there's minimal interaction with my coworkers, I think that's why they don't bother me.

Am I just broken?
161 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 15:09
wife, kids, friends, job, no you're not broken just a pussy
162 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 02:16
How is that being a pussy? As opposed to being a trust fund baby or a NEET?
163 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 07:49
You're an introvert.
164 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 11:33
How to get over having sex with somone you were in love with but didnt feel the same for you? Im fucking heartbroken
165 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 14:20
Stop falling in love softy.
166 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 15:11
I don't know, fuck some more?
167 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 15:27
Just go fuck someone else.
168 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 16:01
How long ago did this happen, op?
169 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 16:18
How does that help?
170 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 16:35
There really isn't a way man. Time heals all wounds.

Drugs and alcohol help though
171 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 16:52
It happened several times. I was dum enough to have sex with the guy cause I loved him. As gay as that sounds
172 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 17:09
I wish it were that easy anon
173 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 17:26
What was the situation? Did he manipulate your feelings for him into sex?
174 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 14:13
Heard my mom's friend say best may to get over a man is to get under,another obe. Assumes that works for both genders. And boys and girls, there are only two genders.
175 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 17:17
No. It was never peer preasure thankfully. If I were to say no hed understand and apologize. He knows I like him to and we've been close friends for a long time. The thing is we both have high sex drives and are sexually attracted to one another.
176 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 20:20
It happens to me too, I can't relate to you though because I'm straight. I think I'm just lonely and hookups remind me of what i don't have that I want. He isn't the one bro, there's someone better out there you just need to worry about you and don't dwell on it
177 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-07 23:24
Well, as hard as it sounds the first step is admitting that you made a mistake if you haven't already. Understanding your role in the development of the situation helps you understand where things started going poorly and how to prevent it again in the future. After that is distance, you say that you're friends with him so this part may also be very difficult. You're not going to make any progress in getting over your feelings for him if you're still close to him. After you make distance, only time will heal your wounds. I recommend going out to meet new people, try new things, pick up a new hobby, or something like that. Injecting new excitement into your life is always a good way to put the past behind you.

I don't recommend drugs or alcohol as they're only a temporary solution.

Hopefully I could help a bit. Good luck to you, op!
178 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 02:27
I've had sex with plenty of people who didn't love me back and it hurts every time. Sometimes the best choice is to just walk away from them even if it hurts. This question is pretty much just a matter of, would you rather get hurt by the person you love over a long period of time or walk away from them and have it hurt a lot for a shorter amount of time?
179 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 05:31
Reform yourself and Don't have sex until your married. It's the only way you can guarantee that they care for you, also no contraception, it is not natural and puts a barrier between you two, children are what hold a relationship together, so have lots of them.
180 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 08:35
I just stopped getting to know people and falling in love and having sex. It sounds sad but I'm happy staying away from all that emotional shit. I'm too busy and have better shit to do than mess around with fuck with others and fuck myself up.
Like op what do you do? What makes you happy? Focus on yourself because you don't need anybody else but your damn self. Only you matter.
181 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 11:38
The girl I love moved on to another guy
It fucking hurts sometimes I'll tell you that right now
But am I gonna give up and cry no

Man the fuck up
Next time that fucker tried to use you you look him right in the eyes and tell him to go fuck off
182 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 14:38
This times a million
Would've killed myself already if I wouldn't have had any cigarettes to kill myself slowly
183 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 17:12
Find the person that actually loves you and have meaningful sex with them everyday.
184 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 18:02
And that's how addiction starts folks. When you get addicted to drugs or alcohol or any bullshit, then your life really goes down hill from there.
Trust me, I've tried to solve my issues with alcohol and it doesn't work.
185 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 18:19
smoke weed, abuse amphetamines and drink every day
186 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 18:53
I'm straight too. I'm a woman
187 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 19:26
Amphetamine binges suck man
188 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 20:00
Thanks a lot anon
189 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-08 21:24
I'll take la tits now for 200?
Or get the fuck out
190 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 01:34
This, alcohol will fuck up your life more
191 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 02:24
the no sleep gets to ya when you run out but that's when you substitute drinking and continue the digging
192 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 03:14
Wanna greentext the story for us, op? It could help us help you

Also obligatory: tits+timestamp on imgur
193 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 04:05
Time. Consider taking on a new meditative calming hobby such as playing an instrument, fishing, papercraft, sculpture, or cooking.

Every knife will always stay in your heart, but they blunt with time.
194 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 04:38
Fapping for hours is fun though
195 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 04:55
I'll be taking guitar lessons soon. Thanks anon
196 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 04:58
This is what you get for fucking niggers.

Now get off my 4ct, you dirty mop headed nig fucker. This is you right before you fall to your doom after the nigger beats your face in, knocks you up, throws acid on you and you tumble off the wall and shatter.
197 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 05:16
Hey guys. 20 yo girl here.
I want to get this off my chest and I thought id say it here.

I absolutely despise myself to the point where I have lost everything I was. My hobbies, my friends, my skills, personality etc. I am no one and I am alone.
Live with mom, have had depression for 4 years now,got no job and no motivation for life. I'm ugly and awkward as fuck too. Never even kissed

I don't want to kill myself yet because I don't want to cause drama in my family. I know im young but I'm thinking about doing it next year away from home.
198 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 05:33
You're still young. Just hang in there. Your 20's typically are the toughest because of insecurities, lack of direction ect. Just try to get a hobby that Kees your mind off things perhaps something that challenges your mind. Hang in there :)
199 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 05:50
the jump from highschool to 20 y/o mark is pretty much the point where you decide your future, adn you wasted it like a bunch of other /lounge/tards here so gl with that
an heroing is too easy but it's an option, you can still fix your life you actually try to do something with it instead of crying about it on the fuking internet, tho depressin is a bitch if you already hit that point
how to fix your life? hell if know, get friends? work on your body? geta hobby? become important to someone? charity? become a teacher? just do anything to keep you away from nothing at all
200 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 06:07
You're so nice anon. Thanks for the advice.

Live in a shit country. Heroin would be nice but we don't even have it
Yeah I'm so fucking desperate i chose internet to whine because honestly no one else would listen.
I thought about charity, it's a good way to help others and get yourself motivated.
I guess I needed some support. Will see what happens in the future, I'm too lazyto start. I guess I can give those options a shot, thanks anon
201 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 07:14
if you gonna drop there you are just asking to feel gud now and ruin what's left of your life
no one else would listen
there's groups irl for that, dk about your country, but there's always the church (and i'm an atheist, but they do a job an ear). point being, anyone can post shit on the internet, but if you got no one irl to lend you a shoulder it ain't gonna do much
202 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-09 18:33
Just got out of a relationship with this girl who loved me being dom but she switched from sub to dom and idk why but I love when I don't have control of a situation be it sexual or otherwise with a woman leading charge. Not like 100% of the time though cause sometimes I just need to lay down the law or dick em down like a real man
203 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-10 08:43
I'm in my 30s, married, good career but lots of irregular hours
wife doesn't want kids so we have tons of extra money since we live relatively frugally
wife doesn't know but I have a huge cheating fetish
currently becoming a sugar daddy
I'll rent a small apartment, let a girl live there with paid utilities and an allowance
put up the side chick, require regular STD checks, retain right to evict her at any point
stay married to fulfill my cheating fetish
rotate out side chicks every few years
204 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-11 07:30

Can you be my dad.
205 Name: Anonymous 2017-08-12 06:14
Thanks for telling us about you're boring and sad life OP! Cheers.

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