>>542
Well, you need to get over that bullshit.
Girls are more likely to be attracted to men who aren't afraid to speak their minds.
Don't be afraid dude, if she says no, don't let it bother you because there are plenty of fish in he sea.
Ask her, if she says no she doesn't like you like that just be like, "OK, well you still wanna grab some food?"
Don't be ashamed or bothered.

>>543
ok ill think about that
but that guy below
>>539
kinda said the right thing. Its not that important.

if you want to get her you need to act more confident than her idiot, disrespectful friend, because she is clearly under influence, changing her mind. Literally when you see them together act like you only care about one thing - your girl. She seems a bit silly, but ur 18 so whatever. It's your choice.

Girls are most likely attracted to fucking monkeys, boys with an ego bigger than their brain, fitness or money - fuck those bitches. Find a woman, who is intellectual smart and nice.

>>528

Stop being insecure

If she's not interested move onto something else. If you sit around with butterflies over some chick you'll never get anything productive or worthwhile done. Just chat and flirt with her (and for the love of god, learn how to fucking flirt) and if she's not interested just drop it - if she ever did like you she'll get back to you when she's less busy. If not, there's plenty more girls out there for you to attempt getting with. Learn how to deal with rejection - the most successful people out there have to deal with it daily. It comes with the grind.

>>546
As far as i could tell she is. Me and her have the same humor and stuff and she is kinda pretty, but theres nothing to do. Miight confess to her that i do like her, but maybe not. Lets see if my inner pussy gets the better of me

>>547
thanks for the encouraging words. I'll move on. Lets see if she wants to grab some to eat or not

>>546
Yes, british trash girls are attracted to fitness bois with big egos. Normal attractive girls are attracted to boys who challenge them, they dont want some fucking sissy boy nor some fucking douchebag.

Its not insanely hard to find a nice and smart girl.

>>549
Don't push it anon. You've asked her now move onto other girls and work on yourself. If she ever was really interested she'll get back to you, if not then chill and do something else.

If you're desperate and clingy like she's the only one, she'll never like you back. But if you show you have a life and her rejecting you was no big deal because you can do other things with your weekend socially, then she'll be more interested.

I'm not gonna bombard you with "game theory" shit because half it is bullshit, but people generally like others that have
1. Time/Effort for them
2. Money (for both activities together and for gifts)
3. Attractiveness, at least around the same level. 4's will hang with 3-5's, 7's will hang with 6-8's. Rarely will see them intermix.
4. Social skill. Can you hold a conversation across a range of subjects? You might enjoy those video game conversations with your bros, but you'll need to know things from fashion to reading to philosophy to expand your social circle.

There's more to it than that, and notice I said "people", not women. Almost all that incel game theory shit holds solid ground in psychology its just packaged to make you hate society too. Don't do that - enjoy society and people and you'll eventually land a good girl as your experience builds. Have fun anon.

>>551
Yeah thats what i was gonna do. If she does want to eat something, she'll get back to me. And im gonna screenshot this, because this seems useful. Thanks.

>>552
Thanks anon, I'm glad I could help. Look up sociology stuff from lots of different sources and apply them wherever you can. Some of it is bullshit and some of it just won't work for you. But keep trying and remember that rejection is a big part of life that is okay. If you won every time, you'd never learn anything. Reflect on yourself and the situation as if from a third party - imagine that you're someone giving you advice about a situation rather than picturing yourself in it. Phrase it, aloud to yourself as if you're that third party who doesn't really know you and the other person. You'll be more decisive and hopefully have more clarity as you won't think of it as "This is about me" and think of it as this person and that person, based on what you know about people.

Hi anon, college professor here. I'm eating tendies and browsing here for old time's sake while my wife's out of town. Some advice for what it's worth.

This one sounds like it's not going to happen. That's too bad, but I'm really glad I didn't get attached to anyone I knew in high school. I got this response from a lot of crushes. Most turned out to be terrible people in hindsight, I'd have fucked my life up and never gone anywhere if they'd accepted me. It hurts now, but you'll probably realize you dodged a bullet later.

Work on yourself. Even if you're a perfect 18 year old, you're just starting to become who you are. Think about university, college, trade school, jobs, next steps to who you want to be. You want a woman who likes the person you're going to become, and you're going to become that person over the next five years. Get independent, get stable. Develop skills and passions that are both work-related and hobbies. Practice talking to everybody, and get used to treating everybody respectfully (faggot). There's a good chance you'll meet somebody along the way who'll be much better for future you than this girl.

Next time, ask the girl out in person. Doing that wouldn't have helped you here since she's not interested anyway, but best practices for future. Healthy relationships require direct communication, and you should start them with direct communication.

Whores are the only honest women IMO.

They know their value and put a set price on it. Regular women act like their pussy is made of gold and drastically overinflate it's value.

That's also why regular women hate whores, they take away that pussy bargaining chip women hold over men's heads.

When are we going to stop paying our ISPs for the Internet. They've already taken most of the good things off it, so why are we still paying em?

>>556
move to Estonia you spacey cunt

>>557

Estonia

first, why would you bring this up?
second: language barrier

>>558
free super duper high speed internet. why the fuck else would I bring it up? everyone, all over speaks English now. it's the current year, after all. fuck sake anon.

>>558
probably coz internet is dirt cheap in northern europe. I'm finnish and my 50Mb/s is 1€/month.

yeah move to Europe so that you can have your internet freedom restricted>>560

>>559
the only reason you need high speed internet is for streaming services like youtube/netflix. Those companies should be paying for the Internet connection and charging you the fees for it. If they were we'd just be charged the cost of the internet and ISPs wouldn't be making a profit on top. Right now every connected company that you pay is getting their cut of the pie.

>>560

probably coz internet is dirt cheap in northern europe.

as it should be. I mean exactly what are you paying for? to connect to facebook? youtube? 4ct? Do you really need any of these services in your life enough to be paying $40+ a month?

It' not the ISP's fault. Blame the copyright cartels trying to screw every last cent out of us. Many ISP's have stood up to them, and refuse to pass on troll payment demands for torrenting, or user details. Blame the govts with their pathetic site blocking rules which mostly only take a change of DNS server to bypass. As it bites, blame the stupid fucking americans for killing net neutrality, all in the name of making more money for the huge telecoms companies.

If you have the chance, wherever you live, go with a smaller ISP who will be much more likely to protect your rights.

>>563
the smaller ISPs are just sucking the tit of the bigger ISPs.

Not sure how copyright cartels have cause the price of Internet plans to go up.

torrenting is a great example now that you've brought it up. Since torrenting is becoming more and more scarce, that mean you really don't need those fast internet plans north of 30MB/s. It is illegal anyway, so if you're not torrenting, why the fuck would you pay so much for Internet?

It's the thirst, thirstiest time of the year
I have just one query
Wanna Sprite Cranberry?
The answer is clear
It’s the thirst, thirstiest time of the year
Sprite! Let’s go!

Among all of you fools, somebody must have the answer to this simple problem.

How do I ask out a girl in my class?

>>567
Take the spaghetti out of your pocket and walk up to her and say "Stacey I'm going to a (fill in the blank) this (fill in the blank), want to come with me?"

>>567
For starters, you have to concoct a whole scenario in your head where you love this girl while never actually saying a word to her. Never talk to her but stalk her for months. When she does get into a relationship, complain to /lounge/ about how all girls are sluts.

So Tumblr is apparently banning adult content, one of their main sources of content. I decided to look for myself, and sure enough, it was true. Then I noticed the "What is "adult content?"" section of the FAQ.

https://i.imgur.com/JFrgoNE.png

There are some very obvious loopholes that can be exploited here if anyone wants to do anything with that.

>>570
you're about a month late with this my d00d

What calms you down when it feels like you are overwhelmed?

>>572
Shittposting on textboards.

The realisation that your misery is all in your head, its your inability to enjoy small things, your envy of the happiness of other people and regret of not doing something better with your life.

Dont let your emotions controls you, control them instead.

How do you get video traffic? I made a video I'm proud of, but how are people supposed to know about it? I've never thought of this before and just assumed people would just watch it on it's own.

>>575
Depends on what the video is on. Is it music, comedy, education...

You need to target your demographics well, a few key phrases and words in your description should let the video show up in people’s feeds better.

I barely know how to use twitter. Followers are the most important thing, right? How else am I supposed to be using it?

>>576
I did fudge the hell out of the tags. There's a lot of words there that barely relate.

Are there any commonly accepted rules about the algorithm that'll make it show up more? Like a certain number of views or subs I need?

>>575
Just
Look
Ok
Dude
Just post the link. You know you want to. I'll watch your stupid shit and give it a thumbs up

>>579
I do want to but I want some good long-term ideas too because I have no idea how to do this

Also can comments on youtube be shadowbanned? I made one comment on someone's video and it shows when I'm logged in, but when I'm logged out I can't find it

>>580
YouTube hates creators. It wants to be a TV station. Post it on Reddit in some related subreddits asking for opinions on your work..

>>581
I tried but it got taken down for self-promotion. Is there a sub just for constructive criticism?

It's a boxing analysis video if that helps; /r/videos and boxing already deleted it when I tried posting.

Why aren't you just posting it here?

I have $20 but I’m only 20 years old and can’t buy alcohol so my mom is getting me some at the store in a little bit. My problem is that I usually get the 12 pack of twisted tea, but realized I should be getting more than twelve small cans for twenty bucks. But I also don’t like the taste the plain beer like Budweiser and whatnot. I’m pretty sure Mikes Hard is just as expensive as the teas. What’s a good in between? Where I would get more than 12 small cans but taste better than “normal” beer?

First time posting on 4ct, but wanted to contribute to you guys: add snapchat account 'sjweih'. Going all the way tonight with an unscensored account! you gonna like it :p Just a pro tip from a humble Belgian citizen :) Thank me later

>>585
What should i expect >>585?

Some pharmacy stuff, showoffs, nudes, lots of boobs and hot girls going all the way.... Probably some dick (in vag) too. The good stuff actually. And all genuine, just real people who made a vid and wanted to share

Is homosexuality good?

>>588
No.

>>588
What is it good for, war that's what I'm say, homosexuality lined up against the wall.

Why does my cat hate doors?

When are you going to start taking rape seriously??

When false accusations disappear and witch hunts like metoo vanish.

Otherwise men might as well start accusing Hollywood actresses for when they were uncomfortable.